"Examine yourselves to see if your faith is genuine. Test yourselves…"
— 2 Corinthians 13:5Fully describes me — living this out (closest to center)
This mostly describes me
Somewhat — still growing here
Just beginning to work on this
Not yet — significant room to grow (furthest from center)
Communion with God • Questions 1–7
Community with Believers • Questions 8–14
Co-Mission with the Holy Spirit • Questions 15–21
A word about why this part matters
No matter how sincere we are, none of us can fully see ourselves the way others see us — or the way God sees us. Blind spots aren't a sign of failure. They're a sign of being human.
The question isn't whether you have them. The question is whether you're humble enough to let someone help you find them. A trusted friend or spouse has watched your life up close. That kind of perspective is rare — and it's a gift worth receiving.
One of the quietest spiritual dangers is believing we are doing better than we actually are. Jesus reserved some of His strongest words for people who were confident in their own righteousness — while something important was quietly slipping in their hearts.
A friend who loves you enough to be honest isn't a threat to your spiritual health. They're one of God's greatest tools for protecting it.
You invited this. That took humility — and it means their honesty deserves to be honored, not defended against. When you sit down together to look at the results, your one job is to listen. You don't have to agree with everything. But resist the urge to explain, justify, or correct.
If something catches you off guard or stings a little, try this instead of pushing back:
"Help me understand — how did you come to that conclusion?"
That one question changes the whole conversation. It tells your friend their perspective matters to you. And it opens a door to something you genuinely couldn't see on your own.
"The purposes of a person's heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out."
— PROVERBS 20:5When you're ready, hand your device to the friend or spouse you brought with you. Their honest, prayerful perspective — alongside yours — will give you the clearest picture of where God is calling you to grow.
You have a rare privilege. The person who handed you this device has completed their Spiritual Health Assessment and trusts you enough to ask for your perspective.
You'll answer the same 21 questions — but about . Answer based on what you honestly observe in their life. Be honest, be prayerful, and be kind.
Use the same scale:
Friend's perspective • Questions 1–7
Friend's perspective • Questions 8–14
Friend's perspective • Questions 15–21
Teal = self | Purple dashed = friend/spouse • Lower = closer to center = more like Christ
Each spoke = one question. Solid teal = | Dashed purple =
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